week 19
The appointment today went well. First of all, the baby's heartbeat, again, was loud and clear. We've made it to 19 weeks! I saw another doctor in the practice, Dr. Granger, and I liked him. He took a moment to read through my file (much more extensive already than my first three pregnancies put together) and then we talked about where we are headed.
Steve and I have been wondering if I need to see a high risk doctor for my weekly appointments, if that is necessary. I feel like I am still trying to figure out how everything works when your pregnancy is "complicated," because there is a whole network of different doctors that have some input and involvement at various points in the whole process: the OB, perinatologist (high risk doctor), fetal maternal doctor (another high risk OB), neonatologist (focuses on the baby after birth). For us, knowing when and how each of these doctors comes into the scene is what we're learning.
I liked that Dr. Granger encouraged me just to take things as they come. I had asked a question about something that might be a possibility waaaay down the line and he gave me a brief answer, but then told me that it would be better just to manage things week by week. He said it graciously and it really revealed and quieted my fears at that point. I like that simple truth- taking things one step at a time- that is what is best for my heart.
At the same time, we did discuss next week's ultrasound and that at 24 weeks, when they consider the baby viable, I'll also have a level 2 ultrasound at the perinatologist. At that time, if all is going well, I'll see a neonatologist for a consultation. There is much to learn here for me and a lot of new situations to adjust to. Again, week by week is how we're doing it (and day by day in trusting God to settle our hearts).
So we've made it through to week 19- almost halfway there! We praise God for another week to celebrate our little girl and for His amazing goodness and love for us through this whole process. I don't think I would be making it so well at all without Him, and without a loving and supportive husband, family and friends.
On a lighter note, we had a "first" in our family this week. After bathing Abigail and letting her "air out" for a few minutes to help with her diaper rash, I dashed out of the room to get the phone. When I returned, I saw Abigail sitting on the rug in my room, both fists full of something. I didn't have my glasses on at the time, and when I reached her close enough to get a sharper image of what she was holding, I realized that it was two fistfuls of poop. On the floor were three chocolate brown smudges of no. 2. (This one's for you, Christy!) Needless to say, it was quite a mess to clean up and I was also getting ready for a babysitter to come so that Steve and I could have our anniversary date. There is never a dull moment when you have toddlers!
Steve and I have been wondering if I need to see a high risk doctor for my weekly appointments, if that is necessary. I feel like I am still trying to figure out how everything works when your pregnancy is "complicated," because there is a whole network of different doctors that have some input and involvement at various points in the whole process: the OB, perinatologist (high risk doctor), fetal maternal doctor (another high risk OB), neonatologist (focuses on the baby after birth). For us, knowing when and how each of these doctors comes into the scene is what we're learning.
I liked that Dr. Granger encouraged me just to take things as they come. I had asked a question about something that might be a possibility waaaay down the line and he gave me a brief answer, but then told me that it would be better just to manage things week by week. He said it graciously and it really revealed and quieted my fears at that point. I like that simple truth- taking things one step at a time- that is what is best for my heart.
At the same time, we did discuss next week's ultrasound and that at 24 weeks, when they consider the baby viable, I'll also have a level 2 ultrasound at the perinatologist. At that time, if all is going well, I'll see a neonatologist for a consultation. There is much to learn here for me and a lot of new situations to adjust to. Again, week by week is how we're doing it (and day by day in trusting God to settle our hearts).
So we've made it through to week 19- almost halfway there! We praise God for another week to celebrate our little girl and for His amazing goodness and love for us through this whole process. I don't think I would be making it so well at all without Him, and without a loving and supportive husband, family and friends.
On a lighter note, we had a "first" in our family this week. After bathing Abigail and letting her "air out" for a few minutes to help with her diaper rash, I dashed out of the room to get the phone. When I returned, I saw Abigail sitting on the rug in my room, both fists full of something. I didn't have my glasses on at the time, and when I reached her close enough to get a sharper image of what she was holding, I realized that it was two fistfuls of poop. On the floor were three chocolate brown smudges of no. 2. (This one's for you, Christy!) Needless to say, it was quite a mess to clean up and I was also getting ready for a babysitter to come so that Steve and I could have our anniversary date. There is never a dull moment when you have toddlers!
Great news, Adrienne! Answered prayer! I think about you (and pray for you) so much. I am so thankful for your courage and boldness to blog about this. Sending love!
ReplyDeleteWe read your blog with great joy. He is faithful day by day and week by week. We are praying for you and trusting Him for the very best. Thank you for keeping us posted!
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Sarah and Ben